man your essays are always so juicy. you say a lot pretty briefly, it's pretty cool. i would conduct your unscientific experiment but I only have like 2 cis male friends. #downwithcis I feel like another piece of the kiki's thing is it's also about burnout - and while we all experience it, non-cishet white men are definitely hit by it a lot harder so it probably resonates more. especially as you have your own moments in life when you lose your connection to your 'magic'

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