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man your essays are always so juicy. you say a lot pretty briefly, it's pretty cool. i would conduct your unscientific experiment but I only have like 2 cis male friends. #downwithcis I feel like another piece of the kiki's thing is it's also about burnout - and while we all experience it, non-cishet white men are definitely hit by it a lot harder so it probably resonates more. especially as you have your own moments in life when you lose your connection to your 'magic'

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aww thanks buddy <3 glad you think so. that's a really good point too with the burnout = losing connection to magic!! i didn't even think of that. that's real tho -- we have to give so much more than cishet white men do, sighs.

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